Love, which is the most mysterious and indescribable thing in the world, makes the world complex and people's behavior baffled.
What is love? Love could be adoration of one's idols, could be respect to one's father or teachers, could be loving-kindness to one's children, but what I am going talk about is the most common one, that is, the love between opposite sex.
Compared with the modern love today, the engaged marriage in the ancient China as well as in some rural area nowadays, is quite enviable though it is not based on true love. They lay stress on the everlasting, so they could hold together until they die without breakaway. The Modern love is often based beauty and wealth, that is, a man chooses his girlfriend according to her pretty appearance and a girl from the boy's wealth. If love is built on beauty, soon as beauty, dies. They do not know what the famous saying "Beauty is in the eyes of beholder" means.
Quite a number of people seek the love like the one between Romeo and Juliet or Butterfly Lovers in China. People nowadays are quite lack of true love. They attempt to create love in motion pictures, novels and others means to express their blankness in love. Someone even do something immoral like one night stand. Love is again pushed to the front of the court to be questioned by its origin.
Hasty love, soon cold. Quite a number of men hanker for girls sparing no effort. They try every means to get the girls' hearts. Love sought is good, but given unsought is better. A close friend of mine and his girlfriend make amorism subtly and happily.
True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen. People often say that they comprehend love and they have got true love. On the contrary, love rules his kingdom without a word. William Shakespeare once said," Love looks not with eyes, but with the mind, and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." Every person is able to say, but few of them could taste the genuine one, as it is convinced by a famous saying “Love talked about can be easily turned aside, but love demonstrated is irresistible.”
Why does love exist? For thousands of years, people have been seeking the existence of love. People say something like “It is love that makes the world go round” and “Love makes all hard hearts gentle” and so on. Some may even think that love is an attempt to change a piece of a dream world onto reality. A friend of mine is lovelorn, but as soon as he finds a girl who makes him forget about his unfortunate past, he understands what “love cures people, the ones who receive love and the ones who give it” means. A notable once remarked, “Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of the human existence.”
The course of true love never does run smooth. Friendship may, and often does, grows into love, but love never subsides into friendship. Let me tell you a story. A very close friend of mine whose name is Owen, met her at the beginning of the school term. They find that each other is quite easy to talk with. They often helped each other and talked with each other. Soon they became good friends. They both thought each other were simply good friends without noticing that they had fallen in love until one day they realized it. They both shifted off and pretended to be the same as usual. After sometime, my friend realized that was useless for him to do such things. He vindicated to the girl, and the girl told him that she loved him as well. It is quite confused that people who love each other could not be together, but those who do not, could be.
Love is blind. No one has denied the fact that love is blind. A man would do everything to express his love to a girl like saying "I could do anything for you, even die". The girl might probably be affected right away.
Nowadays, no one denies the fact that computer is being the current in every aspect of the society. Love is no exception. When love computerizes, it makes itself more complicated. Why do people prefer growing love in network? First, they think it is quite popular. People create popularity and they are influenced by it. They love fashion, therefore, they turn love to be more fashion. Second, more efficient and convenient. Ever since network was publicized, countless love stories have taken place in it.
Lovelorn. Love is like the moon; when it does not increase it decreases. When the day of being lovelorn comes, he might be depressed and hate the other girls, even the whole world. There is only bitterness that exists in his mind. You must face it since those that have taken place could not be changed. There are many ways to release you from despair. One common means is to scream out as long as you have released the feeling oppressed at the bottom of your heart and say to yourself, " A man has choice to begin love, but not to end it; being lovelorn is can not mean everything, since there is more that one girl in this world. No matter how hopeless you might be, read the following wisdom.
Bitterness imprisons life, love releases it.
Bitterness paralyzes it, love empowers it.
Bitterness sours it, love sweetens it.
Bitterness sickens life, love heals it.
Bitterness blinds life, love anoints its eyes.
It is quite true, it really is.
Carrying a torch. A boy falls in love with a girl, but she does not love her, it could not be real love, but a morbid one, since love is of both sides. Those people are even of great sorrow. Though it is really better to have loved and lost, than never to have love at all, he still has to solve it, whether to be unremitting or to quit.
Beyond doubt, love cannot be described simply words. Maybe it is wrong for me to compose this article, but I must still carry on since love is endless and people could not express their love in words but by heart, and not within a few minutes like the wedding vows but during their whole life time. I do wish that those who love each other could come together, find their genuine love, and to love truly, deeply and madly.