make the DataColumn of byte array type, then you can do try something like (VB):
Dim ms As New IO.MemoryStream()
Dim p As New Bitmap("c:\fish.bmp")
p.Save(ms, p.RawFormat)
Dim arrImage() As Byte = ms.GetBuffer
'create a new row of data in the dataset
Dim r As DataSet1.Table2Row = DataSet11.Photos.NewTable2Row
r.name = "fish"
'set the picture field of the dataset row to the Byte array
r.picture = arrImage
'add the row to the dataset
DataSet11.Photos.Rows.Add(r)
'save the data in the dataset to the database
OleDbDataAdapter1.Update(DataSet11)