objcet嵌套embed实现不自动播放

[zzy113000]

<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=8,0,0,0" width="1011" height="590" align="middle" >
<param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />
<param name="movie" value="video/dynamic_flash_video_gallery.swf" />
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="#000000" />
<embed src="video/dynamic_flash_video_gallery.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#000000" width="1011" height="590" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" />
</object>
这是代码~~怎么实现打开网页之后不会自动播放呢？
加autostart试过了呢，没有用滴

[slwsss]

<embed src="your.mid" autostart=false>

[slwsss]

等要播放的时候再加载吧或者在swf加个控制播放的