mac装boost引用python的适合一直报 'pyconfig.h' file not found

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./bootstrap.sh --prefix=/monchickey/boost --with-python=/monchickey/python3/bin/python3 --with-python-root=/monchickey/python3 --with-python-version=3.6
./b2
./b2 install

这样安装boost的
python.jam的m也加了
还是找不到 手动添加pyconfig.h所在的目录到include里就会报：
clang: error: linker command failed with exit code 1 (use -v to see invocation)

怎么看boost怎么找pyconfig.h的路径啊？？？