declare @Table table( [ID] int primary key, SRC int, DST int, Port int )
insert into @Table
select 1 , 12 , 21 , 36
union select 4 , 73 , 36 , 11
union select 5 , 21 , 54 , 12
union select 6 , 21 , 54 , 13
union select 7 , 21 , 54 , 14
select distinct C.* from @Table C
inner join ( select A.[ID] as ID1, B.[ID] as ID2 from @Table A inner join @Table B on A.[ID] +1 = B.[ID] and A.Port + 1 = B.Port ) as D
on C.[ID] = D.ID1 or C.[ID] = D.ID2